kbragg
Well-Known Member
I don't get it. I've been a member here for years and can find threads from back in 2006 where I am complaining about my edges. I've tried growth aid, I keep moisture up, almost never use heat, when I bun I wear loose buns. The few times I've worn braids, I didn't braid the edges and wore them down (no tight pony tails. I moisturize, I protein, I've researched and done everything I'm supposed to do, yet my temples look like this:
I just want to cry I'm afraid I'm going to end up looking like a middle aged man. Where is my hair disappearing to? What's the point of length if I can't even wear a respectable pony tail without looking like Naomi Campbell?
I honestly don't know how to wear my hair anymore. I have it in a loose french braid right now because DS ruined my braid out lol. I'm afraid to PS because cornrow, braids, buns etc just seem to worsen the problem. I have not had a relaxer in months. This is a fairly new problem because I honestly don't remember being practically bald at the temple area even during my worse hair care days (grease and heat daily, perms every 4 weeks)
Has anyone ever recovered from an problem like this? Am I doomed? I just want to shave it bald at this point but DH said to not do it ever
I just want to cry I'm afraid I'm going to end up looking like a middle aged man. Where is my hair disappearing to? What's the point of length if I can't even wear a respectable pony tail without looking like Naomi Campbell?
I honestly don't know how to wear my hair anymore. I have it in a loose french braid right now because DS ruined my braid out lol. I'm afraid to PS because cornrow, braids, buns etc just seem to worsen the problem. I have not had a relaxer in months. This is a fairly new problem because I honestly don't remember being practically bald at the temple area even during my worse hair care days (grease and heat daily, perms every 4 weeks)
Has anyone ever recovered from an problem like this? Am I doomed? I just want to shave it bald at this point but DH said to not do it ever