Caramela
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To have a ministry for women who have had abortions. An outreach of love and support.
That really changes the entire purpose of the thread... To the OP's original question, how would you propose that be done?
To have a ministry for women who have had abortions. An outreach of love and support.
Actually there are many out there. We can't say that there are none just because we haven't seem them. There's a serious call for this type of ministry and God has laid upon many hearts to hear and answer the call to heal.But where are they? That's why I think a lot of women take their abortions to their grave. Their own church members silently and verbally judge them and there isn't an outreach program in sight for them. When the elders do see a woman with 2 or 3 kids and can barely support herself with no father around because she chose to keep them, then they talk about her then as well.
I've seen it on both sides and I know someone who doesn't think I know that she had an abortion and i think she is taking it to the grave. The minute she says something to the tune of her having one, who knows what will happen.
And in all honesty, what church do you know will have a ministry like this? That's the scary part. Not mine. They mean well, but try saying something as controversial as such and its a totally different story.
I think it's already begun. Our precious OP presented the need for such and it's now up to each of us to be available. Each of us here has something to offer in love and support to one who has had an abortion.That really changes the entire purpose of the thread... To the OP's original question, how would you propose that be done?
I work in counseling and a ministry for women struggling with issues post-abortion is much needed. Women who have had abortions are often too afraid to get help from the church because they would be so shunned. There isn't an outlet in many church. Because of the stigma I think it would have to be handled in a confidential manner such as a Christian counseling type of setting. The enemy is so horrible, he'll convince the woman to have the abortion then torture her w/the thoughts about how wrong it was afterward. This condemnation is not from God. THere are women who often here the baby crying, or who get seriously depressed afterward and even attempt to take their own life.
I don't know if women would be willing to come to a group for this in their own church. Maybe something internet based would be effective, I think it may be more appealing to women since their faces won't be seen and such shame is often attached to it.
Thank for the above post, I am going to use some of those resources.
Actually it will NEVER matter what man says or what man thinks. It what God says. "Thou Shalt Not Kill". Period! That will never change.
For those who call themselvs Christians and 'Pro-Choice".... Hmmmmm. "Choose you this day whom you will serve..." God says plainly that He has called Heaven and earth as His witness, "Choose Life or Death, blessing or cursing...therefore choose Life". Period. It's just that plain.
It does not matter what man/woman says in opposition to this. Those who call themselves Christian had better consider that they lie to themselves and to the Lord, for Jesus plainly said, "Why call unto me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things I command?"
You cannot have it YOUR way. It's God's way and no other. You can say that you can as long as you want, but God's way will never change just for one to have 'their' way. It won't. period.
For a man's ways and thoughts MAY seem right to him, but the way thereof is destruction.
Just admit the truth of the matter. That you disagree with God. And you do, totally. Though you may call yourself Christian, you still have problems adhering to and accepting the Truth which He commands, which is 'Thou Shalt Not Kill'.
We do not make the rules...He does and there is nothing that anyone can say or do about it. Nothing! You can quote 'I disagree' or you call turn blue, black or even green in the face, but it still will not change just because you disagree. It won't. It simply won't.
Keep living and eventually you will have to honor it as God's command or die with a lie.
To the OP, I agree, for this cause there are women who need loving support and to know that they can get past this and start over again. I applaude your love and concern for this much needed ministry.
This IS the Christianity forum and in Christianity we honor life, not destroy it. There is no such thing as giving Pro Choice to kill.
Huh? I agree that Abortion is wrong. I just don't believe that the government should punish women who do it. And that means I am in disagreement with God?
lejardinier, this forum needs to know how loving your heart is. It puts me to shame, that I never thought about this situation to help others to the extent that you have. God bless you.Sending you a PM.
you didn't even address my other examples of SIN not being punishable by MAN's LAW. Not suprised. Because you cannot reconcile Man's Law with God's law.What we believe does not matter, God still says, "Thou shalt not kill."
It's a hard call yet, the punishment should fit the crime. Let me explain why. Far too many women and men have taken this law of man (not God's law) of abortion to extreme measures. To the point where life is not respected. Do you really and honestly believe that God intended for abortion to be in operation. Indeed not! This literally grieves His heart to see life be disregarded in the way that it has. Life is a Gift. Allow someone to block your airwaves, surely you will cry out for mercy so that you might live.
How does a baby fetus feel? Women are aborting like it's no tomorrow. It has truly gotten out of hand. There are no longer cases where medically an abortion may be deemed necessary to spare a woman's life or health, now it's done because someone got caught or careless or both and they abort for the convenience of not carrying a child full term. The reasons are selfish and shallow. They're just beginning a new career, a new life, a new boyfriend, some even as low as not wanting to look bad in a new bikini. Ahhhh, yes, it has gotten down to this level and God is heartbroken over this. Tell me He's not.
Babies are being killed (aborted) at 20 weeks, where a 'fork' like instrument is probed into the base of their precious little sculls, until their life is drawn from them and their precious little heads are deflated. Where do we draw the line? Someone needs to go to jail for this cruel act of taking a baby's life. This is 'Hitler'.
Indeed, I would hate to see anyone be jailed for having to make an emotional decision regarding their lives. Especially in the case of rape, or a matter of health, life or death. There are indeed extenuating circumstances that may necessitate an abortation. But I'm speaking of those who do not have extenuating circumstances; it's too available now in the world we live in to anyone who asks for it.
This is not a game. God is not in Heaven tossing dice in a game of Monopoly, saying, "Okay, who's next?" This is a horror to say the very least. Jesus said, "I am come that you may have LIFE and have it more abundantly." God said, 'Be fruitful and multiply" not decrease and die. Yet the world has chosen to do just that and wipe their consciousness with a ragged covering that says, 'pro choice' to kill by choice.
Your post says something, that you do not see an unborn baby as life. For if you did you would see abortion the same as killing an infant who has been born. A baby is still a baby no matter what stage of growth that it is in, be it in or outside of the mother's womb. Just because we've yet to hold this baby in our arms and cuddle it, it is still the same life which is being developed inside of the mother's womb as one who is outside of the womb, be it a zygote, an embryo, or a fetus, this is still a baby. Therefore to abort is no different than to kill an infant outside of the womb.
As for the law, it will still convict and jail a person who causes a pregnant woman to lose her child. It's still taking a life. A pregnant woman is given much care for she carries life inside of her. Any act of purpose to end that life is killing and nothing less.
Now this world would be quite empty of females if they were jailed, for there have been millions of abortions performed since Rowe vs Wade took over. Yet, only for the grace of God this has not happened; women and men are not being jailed for such. Abortion has literally become an epidemic, far out of control. It's only a God given right to respect and behold life, not destroy it.
So yes, you do disagree with God. For there has to be a line drawn to stop this maddness. To those who think it's a game, or a sure market for financial gain, they deserve punishment.
Yet for those in crisis, they need forgiveness and love and healing and no condemnation.
It's not about forcing what we believe on others. It's more about lot letting the world force its homocidal persuasions to kill innocent babies who did not ask a soul for anything except, 'Please let me live."
Now to any woman who has had an abortion, you are not being condemned. I cannot express this more. We've all made decisions which seemed right, no matter what it is. We just have to call it what it is so that we can heal and begin again. I've been there. I've been forgiven and I've moved on in Jesus and I'm free.
Jesus said, "Your sins have been forgiven you; Go and sin no more..." That's how special you are in His heart and always will be. And no one can take that from you. From this moment on...'Where are your accusers?" They no longer exist. But you do...move on in the loving arms of Jesus and allow no one to condemn you ever again. You've moved on from your sin and now it's time to live again and you will. Yes you will.
The abortion issue is intertwined with church-state separation. For this reason alone, the right to choose must be maintained by the government. Some religions/denominations proclaim to be pro-life and others proclaim to be pro-choice. The only way to be neutral on this issue is to allow the individual to make the decision. To do the opposite is crossing the lines of separation between church and state. The Bible itself maintains that church and state should be separate.
We need to be very careful. This goes beyond the abortion issue as now for example, some are pushing to make it a hate crime to speak out against homosexuality. This puts numerous religious leaders into a very difficult position. This issue of church-state separation is a loaded one, but my point is only that attempt to have the government dealing with these types of issues pushes this country in the wrong direction.
Get ready to rumble cause these ladies are gonna do everything but crucify you. Very sensitive topic.
BTW, I am christian and PRO-CHOICE. And it ain't gonna change for no one unless Jesus himself comes down and tells me otherwise.
Don't be upset. I disagree with God about issues everyday of my life and I always will. We ALL do; for as long as we are in this flesh, we will war against what 'thus saith the Lord.' Anyone who says otherwise, they lie.you didn't even address my other examples of SIN not being punishable by MAN's LAW. Not suprised. Because you cannot reconcile Man's Law with God's law.
And No, YOU disagree with God. You disagree with God's gift of free choice. God never intended for us to live in a sinful world. But yet we are here. Why? Because he gave Adam and Eve and you and I FREE CHOICE. There will be consequences for sin on this earth and at judgement. You cannot exact God's punishment. All you and this government can give is what you deem is a acceptable punishment. What is it? Two years, 5 years in jail, the death penalty? Whatever it is, it is not God's judgement. It is only Man's. This is not equal to God's judgement.
And once again you a wrong! I do believe that it is a baby. I also believe a sin is abomonation to God but I refuse to let a SECULAR government take the place of GOD. The United States is not biblical ISRAEL. This country cannot be trusted to enforce GOD's laws. The best a secular government can do is regulate laws between man NOT between man and GOD. And even that it is not doing well.
You give government the right to enforce your beliefs, don't be surprised when one day THEIR beliefs will be forced on you.
Don't be upset. I disagree with God about issues everyday of my life and I always will. We ALL do; for as long as we are in this flesh, we will war against what 'thus saith the Lord.' Anyone who says otherwise, they lie.
As for the other sins, there are penalities that come with them and in many states, there are arrests for those you've mentioned.
However this thread is about abortion, a hot topic and hot answers with a hot destiny. God's laws are not an opinion nor will they ever be. No matter who objects. It's only by His grace and mercies which follow us each day, that we have not been punished as we should. That's His word, not mine, yet I have lived it to know it.
Abortion should not be legalized, especially not to the degree that it has been. You speak of the government or man's laws placing one in jail for this as wrong, yet it's GOD's law, not man that carries this penalty. To be truthful most of the laws we've seen changed to conform to man's sinful nature, were originally based on God's commandments.
Legalized abortion was designed by man and man alone. It's already gone way beond it's original intent to protect mothers in danger of complications and rape and molested victims.
You cannot make this right by saying God gave us the gift of free choice, for free choice is not a license to sin or to change God's commandments.
Is is right for a teenager to have an abortion without parental knowledge or consent? No, and it never will be. YET, legalized has taken license to make this a law. A law with a cover up lie that it's their right to do so. This deserves penality, for it goes against parental rights as God has ordained. Abortions are not a method of birth control, cover up for sin, nor to be free of an unwanted pregnancy. Free choice doesn't make this right. When God gives us a 'gift' He expects us to honor Him with it and to use our free choice wisely.
As for forcing one to serve, honor God, of course you cannot make a person do anything. But you can't be a doormat and not take and maintain your stand for God and what's right. We can't stand with wet noodles for legs and feet. We have to stand firm and not fear man.
Jesus didn't hesitate to speak the truth, whether it was warm or cold in tone. He didn't bite His tongue with the religious rulers; He even called a woman a dog when she sought Him to heal her daughter; He didn't hesitate to call King Herod a homosexual (a fox, meaning effemient one). Jesus wasn't a sissy in a white dress; He was a man and He is God!
There's no getting around the fact that abortion is murder and it can't be taken lightly. As Christians we cannot afford to not speak up and put a stop to this maddness. I'm not afraid of being offensive if it means not allowing the world to pollute this earth I live upon.
I have no doubt at all that you love the Lord and seek to please Him. But we cannot sit back and settle for what's being done in this system. As Christians, we have to have our voice heard and not back down. Some laws should never be, and legalized abortion without limits is one of them. Abortion is not a game. It should only be used for medical reasons and not just because a woman got caught and seeks it for convenience. Free choice is not a license to do so and it never will be. It's simply gone too far.
Take care
I agree with your post and I want to tell you that it is also beautifully written.But Shimmie, that's just it...
We are not disagreeing that abortion is wrong, because it certainly is a sin. Further, it is misconstruing not just our point, but the Bible, to say that upholding the freedom of choice is condoning sin.
I agree that we have to stand firm. That is why those of us who believe abortion is wrong must choose against abortion in our own lives. We must live by example. We must be open to sharing this truth with others. That is not being a doormat, but practicing what we preach.
However, the Bible does not allow us to force our beliefs on anyone else and restrict their ability to chose right and wrong. I agree Jesus did not hesitate to speak the truth, but He never once forced anyone to follow Him. It must have pained Him greatly to see people choose not follow Him, to see so many people call for His death. What those people did was wrong, sending an innocent man to die...the Messiah to die. However, God the Father did not come down from heaven to stop it and neither did Jesus stop them from sending Him to die. That is our greatest example and always will be.
So yes, like Christ spoke out against sinfulness, we must speak out against abortion and make our voices heard, because it is wrong. However, like Christ, we must still allow people to choose. Freedom of choice is certainly not a license to do wrong and never will be. It is what the Bible explains it to be - the opportunity to choose who we will serve. Many will choose man and many will choose God. What we must do is make sure that we exemplify Christ in everything that we do - that we are living witnesses - so that by watching us, people will want to choose God for themselves.
God bless.
I agree with your post and I want to tell you that it is also beautifully written.
Hear me when I say, that people do have a right to choose. And we are to live by example.
Yet the laws are still wrong for they legalize murder. We have a generation who could care less about how we as Christians live by example. The laws of this land have been changed in total opposition to what God commands.
There's no such thing as the beautiful intent of sexual love between a man and a woman. Homosexuality has the law behind them; daring us and threatening us as Christians to even dare to speak against them, least we receive the penality.
Hear me, I know what you are sharing regarding free choice; yet it's over riding OUR free choice as God's chosen. And we cannot allow these laws to be; we simply cannot.
Legalized abortion was only the stargate and the open path to what we see occuring with gay marriages, gay rights, and the like. How so? If they dare to get by with that law, they dare to move on with another which opposes God's order and the path will continue which leads us to destruction.
People do not want to feel 'bad' or responsible for what they do wrong. So now laws are being 'imposed' (yes imposed) upon us to make it easier and easier for one to feel right about committing illegal offenses and other sins.
There has to be a standard. Do you even realize how many Christians who are taking full liberties with legalized abortion? The right to be gay? Churches who have compromised and have given in only to be the 'quote' 'loving example'.
It's not about free choice here. Neither is it forcing our beliefs upon anyone. This mess is affecting our children who live with us and whom we take to Church with us and live with our example and yet the law tells them it's okay to disobey and to totally disregard what they're being taught by us. Our children are being taught more by the world's example than ours. The world's influence is having their rule.
Having abortion laws restored to its original law of being a penalty is not taking away one's free choice. It's teaching this world that you cannot come against the natural order of things. It's teaches that you cannot be careless and committ a murder to justify it. One can still choose, but there is a penality for it. You cannot kill an innocent baby. Sin doesn't win.
What is it about abortion that it needs to be legalized? Sometimes I think Christians use the 'freedom of Choice' catch phrase as a 'Trump card', meaning that they may need this abortion law to remain 'free' in case they may need it. It's the same out for them as it is for the world.
Why not just legalize all crime and be done with all the courts, legal system, and the jails. Afterall, it's all about freedom of choice; so let everyone have their freedom and enjoy it. Bottomline, this can't happen and neither should it be that way with abortion. It's as wrong as these other offenses, if not worse.
Abortion needs to go back to being illegal.
Again divya, your post is beautifully shared. It really is. I hope that I'm not offending you for it is not my intent at all. You take care angel. I wish you and your family a wonderful and happy Thanksgiving.
I totally get what you're saying. And in a Christian nation God's law would trump man's law any time. The thing is, we cannot use Christian standards to set the laws of this country because there is no state sanctioned religion.
We can teach our children that the laws of this land are not always in line with God's laws and commands. And we can teach them that God's law trumps any nation's law any day.
The only solution to this problem would be to turn America into a theocratic state and I don't see that happening any time soon.
What will it profit a man (a woman in this case) if he/she gains the whole world and lose his/her soul?
Some people just need to realize that God is God and there is no skirting around the truth. Say what you must, but in the end...God shall get the Glory in the lives of those who CHOOSE TO DO HIS WILL!
I agree that God gave us the freedom to choose. Without choice, Adam would have been a prisoner forced to obey. The two trees in the Garden of Eden presented an exercise in choice, with rewards for choosing to obey and sad consequences for choosing to disobey. HOWEVER, when faced with a choice, choose to obey God. Yes, we have all made bad choices and suffer consequences for our sins, but we should always learn and grow and make better choices in the future.you didn't even address my other examples of SIN not being punishable by MAN's LAW. Not suprised. Because you cannot reconcile Man's Law with God's law.
And No, YOU disagree with God. You disagree with God's gift of free choice. God never intended for us to live in a sinful world. But yet we are here. Why? Because he gave Adam and Eve and you and I FREE CHOICE. There will be consequences for sin on this earth and at judgement. You cannot exact God's punishment. All you and this government can give is what you deem is a acceptable punishment. What is it? Two years, 5 years in jail, the death penalty? Whatever it is, it is not God's judgement. It is only Man's. This is not equal to God's judgement.
And once again you a wrong! I do believe that it is a baby. I also believe a sin is abomonation to God but I refuse to let a SECULAR government take the place of GOD. The United States is not biblical ISRAEL. This country cannot be trusted to enforce GOD's laws. The best a secular government can do is regulate laws between man NOT between man and GOD. And even that it is not doing well.
You give government the right to enforce your beliefs, don't be surprised when one day THEIR beliefs will be forced on you.
I totally get what you're saying. And in a Christian nation God's law would trump man's law any time. The thing is, we cannot use Christian standards to set the laws of this country because there is no state sanctioned religion.
We can teach our children that the laws of this land are not always in line with God's laws and commands. And we can teach them that God's law trumps any nation's law any day.
The only solution to this problem would be to turn America into a theocratic state and I don't see that happening any time soon.
Excellent thoughts RR and you're speaking the truth.This might not make much sense but I'll say it anyway:
With regard to governmental intervention and "punishment" regarding abortion....
The government kind of does this when a pregnant woman is murdered, e.g., Laci Peterson. I believe Scott Peterson was convicted of TWO MURDERS...the wife/mother and the unborn child....
By definition, abortion means "the termination of a pregnancy after, accompanied by, resulting in, or closely followed by the death of the embryo or fetus" (www.m-w.com).
Also included in the above is the point of miscarriage, which, for example, can happen "on purpose" or "by unexplained, or unintentional means"....
According to the Bible: murder is the shedding of INNOCENT blood...that it was done ON PURPOSE....
So...(and I'm thinking out loud here), once the egg and the sperm meet up, that's a zygote(?) and/or an embryo...and that embryo is INNOCENT because it has not committed any harmful acts against another and of course, has no knowledge of evil... by definition, innocent means "free from guilt or sin especially through lack of knowledge of evil"....
I said all that to say that in terms of government intervention with this matter, I would prefer that my tax dollars not go toward abortion issues because I feel like that would mean that I'm supporting abortion indirectly. And of course, there are MANY other things that I may be supporting indirectly that I don't agree with and that goes against my spiritual/religious beliefs.
The question came up about women being punished by law for having an abortion.... Hmmm.... I suppose the government cannot justify punishing a woman for afflicting her own body... and then that might be hypocritical to do because then that might open the door for government to control other things regarding our bodies, e.g., sterilization, immunizations, restriction of certain health care options, etc.
Plus, a woman who goes through an abortion (before, during, and after) probably deals with so much inner turmoil, maybe that's punishment enough.... And so because the Lord is sovereign, merciful, forgiving, He puts ministries on people's hearts, like the OP, to minister to them....
Again, this is just me thinking out loud....
Excellent thoughts! Especially the bolded part. But it's sad when some women do not feel any remorse for getting an abortion...This might not make much sense but I'll say it anyway:
With regard to governmental intervention and "punishment" regarding abortion....
The government kind of does this when a pregnant woman is murdered, e.g., Laci Peterson. I believe Scott Peterson was convicted of TWO MURDERS...the wife/mother and the unborn child....
By definition, abortion means "the termination of a pregnancy after, accompanied by, resulting in, or closely followed by the death of the embryo or fetus" (www.m-w.com).
Also included in the above is the point of miscarriage, which, for example, can happen "on purpose" or "by unexplained, or unintentional means"....
According to the Bible: murder is the shedding of INNOCENT blood...that it was done ON PURPOSE....
So...(and I'm thinking out loud here), once the egg and the sperm meet up, that's a zygote(?) and/or an embryo...and that embryo is INNOCENT because it has not committed any harmful acts against another and of course, has no knowledge of evil... by definition, innocent means "free from guilt or sin especially through lack of knowledge of evil"....
I said all that to say that in terms of government intervention with this matter, I would prefer that my tax dollars not go toward abortion issues because I feel like that would mean that I'm supporting abortion indirectly. And of course, there are MANY other things that I may be supporting indirectly that I don't agree with and that goes against my spiritual/religious beliefs.
The question came up about women being punished by law for having an abortion.... Hmmm.... I suppose the government cannot justify punishing a woman for afflicting her own body... and then that might be hypocritical to do because then that might open the door for government to control other things regarding our bodies, e.g., sterilization, immunizations, restriction of certain health care options, etc.
Plus, a woman who goes through an abortion (before, during, and after) probably deals with so much inner turmoil, maybe that's punishment enough.... And so because the Lord is sovereign, merciful, forgiving, He puts ministries on people's hearts, like the OP, to minister to them....
Again, this is just me thinking out loud....
Excellent thoughts! Especially the bolded part. But it's sad when some women do not feel any remorse for getting an abortion...
I do have a question... does our tax dollars really go toward paying for abortions? How do you all know? I thought the women who get the abortions are the ones paying for it.