What I found works for me is:
DC with a mixture of ORS Replenishing Conditioner (in the bottle), glycerin, and Aussie 3-min Miracle on damp hair with heat for 30 mins. Rinse, towel blot dry and add a half dollar of SheaMositure Leave-In.
Measure the ORS, glycerin, and Aussie in your hand til it fills your palm.
Airdry soft hair.