i like plain yogurt mixed with castor oil.
i like eggs mixed with castor oil and honey.
i like greg juice.
drink lots of water.
i liked dove conditioner as a leave-in, generally my coarse hair likes rinse out conditioners as leave-ins.
i like unrefined shea butter.
avoid too much glycerin or cones.
i like elucence MB. kenra, dove, ors mayonnaise, did nothing for me.
i like aubrey GPB.
these are my standby's and favorites. i find my hair can actually get too soft, you need to make sure you get enough protein to balance the softening, moisturizing properties.