Well one of the things about being married to a strong Christian is that I am able to share with him all my trials which for me have included some pretty bad stuff. I had an issue with jealousy, anger, hatred (fruits of the flesh). I plan to write about it in the next coming months. I was able to share all these struggles with my husband throughout the trial. I knew as my husband he was supposed to present me a pure bride as Christ does the church so I knew by sharing them he would be able to help me. He never looked down on me (which I wouldn't have blamed him if he did) but he prayed for me and firmly told me that my behavior was not acceptable and spoke to me from the scriptures. Sometimes you need straight talk. Since as a Christian he does not prescribe to divorce (unless I become unfaithful than perhaps he would consider it) I knew he would stand by me no matter what. It gave/gives me comfort in sharing my trials. He is usually the first person I confess to.
Also being married to a strong Christian I know what my role is and he knows his. He knows that he is responsible for me, that he will answer to God if he does not lead his family in a relationship with Him. He takes it seriously (which I hate to admit sometimes gets on my nerves when I want to wear something "stylish" and dh vetos it because it is immodest).
He appreciates the money I bring in by working but he does not expect me to work. Our first child is due at the new year (we've been married 10 years but my aforementioned trial was due to many miscarriages and infertility). I plan to stay home with the baby and he is grateful for that. In fact several years ago I stayed home for a couple of years as a "stay at home wife". He did not have a problem with it at all. He just wanted to make sure I was busy around the home and I took time out to visit with the sick and others and go to ladies' Bible class. He really enjoyed coming home to home cooked meals and me willing to stay up to 11pm when he finally walked through the doors to eat them with him.
One of the biggest assests of being a wife to a strong Christian is that I have a recourse if I feel his behavior is not what it should be. As a wife we are supposed to submit and respect our husbands and the Bible says an unbelieving husband will be won over without words by his wife's behavior. This totally goes against my grain. I am one to engage, not back away when it comes to a conflict. I have learned that God was right and I was wrong (go figure
). If I have a conflict with my husband and I actually do the right thing instead of my tendencies I have found that the outcome is always positive.
We had an issue that we did not see eye to eye on a while back. Instead of my continual engagement of him with this conflict (we never yell and scream by the way, we usually talk through everything with tears sometimes but always respectfully) I finally told him what Sarah told Abraham when she wanted him to put Hagar away she said, "May the Lord judge between you and me". I finally said that to him very simply as my last word. It was kind of funny looking back on it because he looked pretty nervous after I said it and said kind of timidly (and he is
never timid) "okay". He was nervous because he knew he didn't have to answer to me, but he knew he had to answer to God and that is not the most comfortable position to be in. It is amazing how the Lord stepped in not two weeks later and resolved the issue and I felt protected by the Lord.
Also, if I know because dh is a Christian he has a lot of respect for his father who has been walking in the faith for years as well as the elders of our church. If we have an issue that we can't resolve (which is rare) we know we can and have gone to these men to help us. They always do and dh listens to them because he respects his elders (as is fitting for a Christian and many non-Christians would not care about what these other people had to say but would "exercise their freedoms").
One last thing that I personally love about being married to a strong Christian and this is kind of personal but I'll share it anyway. I get turned on when he's leading singing or teaching a Bible class.
Having such a strong Christian man is such a blessing from God and I seem to respond to that.
And I reallllly appreciate it because I had my fair share of being equally unyoked relationships (neither saved) and it was disastrous. 
