Significant other: NO
Husband: NO
I'm not one to rule out using heat on my hair period, but if my SO/Hubby wants me to heat style my hair to the point of damage, he's sick in the head, face and mouth. My boyfriend now sometimes gets on my nerves with some of the things he does/says, and that's enough to deal with in itself. So I know if him, or anyone, ask me to damage my hair he's living in the wish a n* woods.
I'll straighten my hair from time to time, and if he wants it straight for a specific event; give me ample time to plan (you all rememeber when Jason, on The Game, told Kelly he wanted her hair curly for the game hours before, psshhhh BOY STOP! AND she's a White girl, imagine telling me that, SO SIR! YOU LIVING IN THOSE WOODS AGAIN) and I'll get it done no doubt, but permanent damage to my hair, no sir, can't do that. Still
LOVE
you though!