RabiaElaine said:
It's no wonder my hair never seemed to get very long I was trimming too often, because I thought that this is what you are supposed to do to keep the ends healthy. Well I guess if you ladies can make it months to a year without trimming then I can too, I don't have any split ends now so I think I will just try to see how long I can make it without trimming. I'm hoping I can make it at least 6 months, but we'll see.
Yes I know what you mean this is why my hair has only ever been shoulder length at the most and also why most of the black women I see with 'long' hair in London is shoulder length at the most. I can count the number of times I have seen black women with mid back or bra strap hair.
I think that we are just taught that u must trim every six weeks so no wonder we don't see much length in our hair, but having said that, we can only acheive length when we bun it up / baggie / wash more often /cut down or give up heat, then and
only then can we can escape trims which I have only just discovered since finding LHCF. Once I have achieved my desired length which is bra-strap, then i will go back to trimming every 6 - 8 weeks as it will then become essential because I will be wearing my hair down every day and my hair will stay the same length which I won't mind because it will be at the length I am finally happy with.
It makes me so frustrated when i think how long my hair could have been by now