Don't take it personally. Asian women are very ummm, upfront about things. She wasn't trying to be mean or hateful, she was just expressing her opinion. Asian women are like mothers perse. It's just their culture and the way they behave. I can personally say that I have never been treated that way by an Asian women, but that's probably because they think I'm half-Asian. They are very friendly to me, maybe try talking to her so that she thinks that you guys are friendly.
It's just my experience with Asian people, they mean no harm. I should know since I only date Asian guys and all of my friends are Asian (strangely enough). They are funny people if you get to know them (not the American ones)