Random Hair Thoughts/Thinking out loud
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pre_medicalrulz
It Always Been About Hair!
Wont be renewing my subscription this year. Hopefully I get to HL by Dec before I go though.
Almost out of AO BC. Might spring for the Rose Mosqueta if it doesnt have any allergens it in...Oooo!
GettingKinky
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Why are you leaving us pre_medicalrulz? Your hair progress has been very inspiring to me I will miss seeing you around :-(
pre_medicalrulz
It Always Been About Hair!
EnExitStageLeft
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I was in walmart today browsing in the hair aisle and a lady asked what I was about to buy. I pointed to V05 and she gave me the blankest stare I ever seen. She then explained to me that my hair will fall out because those products were for "Them white folk". I asked her to recommend me something and you know what she recommended? Luster Pink. 
...I walked away giggling
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...I walked away giggling
.Saludable84
Better Late Than Ugly
I was in walmart today browsing in the hair aisle and a lady asked what I was about to buy. I pointed to V05 and she gave me the blankest stare I ever seen. She then explained to me that my hair will fall out because those products were for "Them white folk". I asked her to recommend me something and you know what she recommended? Luster Pink.
...I walked away giggling
I hate Luster's. I swear it calamine lotion, just relabeled!
Please excuse my iPhone; it's trying to get it together
havilland
Magical Mythical Princess
I was in walmart today browsing in the hair aisle and a lady asked what I was about to buy. I pointed to V05 and she gave me the blankest stare I ever seen. She then explained to me that my hair will fall out because those products were for "Them white folk". I asked her to recommend me something and you know what she recommended? Luster Pink.
...I walked away giggling
Wowuh........!!!!!!!
LivingInPeace
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Had a dream that I devided to go to a salon to get my hair trimmed. I got home and couldn't figure out why my hair looked so different. Then I realized she had cut my almost BSL hair to neck length and had relaxed it. I looked at the back what I thought was an unusually large part was an oozing, bloody chemical burn. I went back to the salon to confront her. She said she assumed I wanted a relaxer and that she needed to even up my hair.
Well I ended up on the news because of the disturbance I caused
I didn't want to leave the house because my hair looked so limp and lifeless and most of it was gone. And I realized I was going to have to start lurking in the relaxed threads to get help.
Well I ended up on the news because of the disturbance I caused
I didn't want to leave the house because my hair looked so limp and lifeless and most of it was gone. And I realized I was going to have to start lurking in the relaxed threads to get help.
ManiiSweetheart
New Member
Had a dream that I devided to go to a salon to get my hair trimmed. I got home and couldn't figure out why my hair looked so different. Then I realized she had cut my almost BSL hair to neck length and had relaxed it. I looked at the back what I thought was an unusually large part was an oozing, bloody chemical burn. I went back to the salon to confront her. She said she assumed I wanted a relaxer and that she needed to even up my hair.
Well I ended up on the news because of the disturbance I caused
Woow that dream sounds a little too real ...I'm getting nervous just reading about it
ChasingBliss
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Got a wash and set a few days ago. When the stylist was blowing out my natural (for the first time since the big chop) hair, I noticed how thick, full, long and even my crown was. During the decades with a relaxer, my crown NEVER looked like that. It was alway thin, short broken and uneven...even when the rest of my hair reached waist length a few years back. It always looked horrible.
I'm amazed at how full to the very ends my entire head of hair is. I realized that relaxing really jacked my poor head up.
I'm amazed at how full to the very ends my entire head of hair is. I realized that relaxing really jacked my poor head up.
pre_medicalrulz uhhhh where are you going?
MyAngelEyez~C~U
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I think I'm ready to go back to my natural blonde hair color....getting tired of using henna.....think I'll go get an Aveda color consult. Color my hair and then let my roots grow out.
pre_medicalrulz
It Always Been About Hair!
Lol away from all the relax vs natural debates and the cattiness. Lol
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havilland
Magical Mythical Princess
U will be missed. Thanks for letting us know!
There are so many ladies that disappear and don't tell anyone so we don't get a chance to say goodbye.
Good luck with your hair goals. I wish u all the best.
FelaShrine
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Cant say I even blame you. People werent THIS open for the disdain for relaxheads in the past,. wonder who pissed in the bowl of Cheerios.
anyway currently under the steamer with SSI Avacado
I'd take your relaxed hair over struggle twists 
divachyk
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pre_medicalrulz we will miss you so much. Good luck on your HHJ.
FelaShrine, I don't pay them any attention. It's ridiculous really.
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LivingInPeace
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When I woke up and realized it was just a dream, I was so happy! I did feel my hair to make sure my twists were still there!
EnExitStageLeft
Well-Known Member
Lurking is a better option. PLEASE DON'T GO! *insert ugly cry face here*
Saludable84
Better Late Than Ugly
SuchaLady
I already stated something in RHT. pre_medicalrulz is correct. The cattiness is annoying. You can't even breathe without being attacked or criticized nowadays. It's like some people live to start drama. I cannot with this thread anymore. It gets worse by the post.
Please excuse my iPhone; it's trying to get it together
Jobwright
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This is depressing. I came here to be motivated to see and do better, to learn, share and grow together. What the world! I don't care what hair type, hair texture, color, chemical or whatnot, whatever. If you figured it out, help me. And if I can help somebody, I pray God bless me to do that. The way to win is to win. Don't let anybody beat you out of your blessing or stop you from being a blessing. The nastiness, wherever it may come from, will be moved out of my way and yours if you stay on the right path. I WILL WIN every time, all the time. The hard part is not winning, it's waiting for the win that is so hard. Chin up ladies! This forum is what WE make it. Put positivity out there and that's what it will be. Now...lets grow some super healthy beautiful kinky, curly, straight, natural, relaxed, texlaxed hair!!!!
faithVA
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The cattiness can be annoying but the same strategy of avoiding it in real life work here as well. I just try to roll around it when I see it coming. I also tend to notice who is who and let them talk to themselves. I am learning to just not respond as if they are speaking to me. But if I ever reach my goal I'm not sure I would stay around, but we will see. I may be a master of oversight by then
havilland
Magical Mythical Princess
I'm natural (now) and I still LOVE relaxed hair. I love healthy hair. I JUST LOVE HAIR.
I guess I came late and didn't experience any disdain here while I was relaxed or maybe I just don't notice it because I tend to ignore negativity and keep it moving.
But to all my relaxed sisters who are feeling unloved and unwelcome I'm sending you ALL some of my love because I appreciate each and every one of u!
I just don't get why we have to divide.....over differences in hair style..... Jeesh....can't we just live and let live?
I hope everyone doesn't start bailing when they hit their goals. It was invaluable to me when I was a newbie to see veterans and be able to learn from them.
MyAngelEyez~C~U
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After reading what I'd have to do to remove henna color, guess I'll stick with henna. Not worth possible damage.
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