Hey Knottyaaverage, i just had a bad hair day and was desperate lol as my hair grew longer as a natural it got so tangled one day after the wash, i could not untangle the roots. i got so frustrated after trying to detangle for 2 days i just went to the store, bought the perm and slap it on my head, the roots did not take but the rest was texlaxed that was dec 25,07
As the roots did not take i had to do a corrective perm in Paris 3 days later dec 28 and the stylist managed to save my roots and untangle all the knots but without my permission grabbed the scissors; i said no but it was so fast she said no i'm just cutting the ends, nothing more BUT CHOPPED A LOOOOOOOOOOOT OF MY HAIR!!!! going home my sis asked me why i chopped it all i was still in shock! i believe the stylist did it out of jealousy cause i expressely said i did not want to cut anything.
the length before she cut (i thought i was armpit but when she permed it was longer. she knew me but never seen me with longer hair before and it was the first time i saw her in 10years)
The length before she cut:
after she cut
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I'm not gonna pretend i m still very very hurt its 2 years down the drain, all my efforts, my vits and a jealous stylist cuts everything!
It's ok now after that i did not want to hear about hair and i had to be mia for a while...BUT i came back motivated that's why i'm telling Moonglowdiva not to give up, i can relate. We become frustrated, but hair will grow. It motivated me more to not let setbacks ruin everything. So i'm happier cause it did grow in the past 3 months. and i'm confident with my regimen and vits i'll be back where she cut it give or take 3 months.
so courage if anyone suffering from a setback or you frustrated cause you dont see growth try to cheer up, do the best and let nature do the rest (while u do your part of the bargain be it protective styles, low manipulation, scalp massages, cowashing just make sure you have the right regimen for you cause only u know your hair.
it still painful remember the blowout and seeing my hair long for the first time like it never ever been almost hitting my breast but its life and it will regrow it s already regrowing NOW LETS GROW~
SHALL WE HEHE...LETS STAY POSITIVE. we can achieve ladies we can achieve...