I just watched the rest and I laughed throughout the whole thing. I thought it was funny and true for the most part. MOST of the natural videos and naturals I see do NOT HAVE LONG 4B HAIR! The majority of videos and pics I see floating around are 3s and 4As and YES that is very discouraging when you can't identify with those women. There are a few I can name off the top of my head (Sera, Mwedzi, Nonie, Mook....those are all the naturals I know and maybe a couple more....Sylver and Traycee....who are relaxed). So maybe instead of criticizing her speech and her weave, you can send her some videos of Mwedzi and Sera so that she knows 4b hair can grow out and long.
I was thinking Sera and Mwedzi too. Maybe Kimmaytube??
I don't agree with the way it was done, swearing etc. But I think she has a point. For someone who's not as involved in the hair community it's rare to see someone with 4zzzz type long hair. And yes, if I didn't know much about hair but was trying to grow mine out and all people kept sending me were 3c type looking hair videos, it may get a little frustrating.
I don't think she's being ignorant at all. If you look beyond the swearing and the frustration ("you make me sick" etc) I think she's just asking for evidence that her type of hair can grow long too, albeit her request could have been put across in a polite manner.
I say, if us 4zzzz naturals are confident that our hair can grow as long as anyone else's then pointing her in the right direction shouldn't be that hard a task.