Went Undercover....Argued with Dominican Stylist (Long)

luvlonghair

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O.k., ladies, I’ve heard all the rave about going to a Dominican stylist and wanted to test the waters myself and decided to go undercover to see what all the hype was about.

So I’m searching yesterday for a Dominican salon in my area and found one. I went after I got off from work yesterday. I go in and I’m greeted by two ladies and a couple of AA clients. I had waited no longer than 2 to 3 minutes to be serviced:D . I go the chair and the lady just wraps a towel around my neck and puts me in the bowl…… (no cape):eek: :confused: . She tells me that my hair is really dry (I had used to many products on my hair on Sunday). She shampoos my hair meanwhile wetting half of my face…… Anyway, they start talking in spanish, my stylist then goes to a corner and pulls out a little applicator bottle with some light brown liquid in it, (no name or label on bottle) and proceeds to apply it to my scalp.

The argument begins……..

They begin to tell me that if I wanted to grow long hair, that I need to come to them every week, I’m like o.k.,………then she says, “if you come and get a deep conditioner every week, your hair will grow and be even”……WTH:confused: , I tell her that my hair never grows even and that I do get deep conditioning every week, she looks at me like I’m lying:mad: . She then tells me the only way that my hair will grow long is if I get a relaxer every 4 weeks:mad: :confused: , (You got to be kidding me) is this a joke:ohwell: :perplexed :mad: . I know I went in there as a regular client, but that’s ridiculous:perplexed . I told her that there is no way that I’m getting a relaxer every 4 weeks, and that I don’t have enough new growth at 4 weeks to warrant a relaxer. She then says “that’s why your hair won’t grow”:mad: . Whatever…….:mad: , I told them that my hair was up to my ears and now look at the length, “My hair does grow and it grows long”. She snarls at me, then says “well it could be longer”:mad: , goodness, this is what happens when AA’s don’t know how to take care of their hair and allow a stylist whether their AA or Dominican to convince them otherwise. The she says “you must have been going to AA stylist”, I tell her yes, she says “that’s why…….:mad: :mad: :mad: So then my stylist tells me “you can have long hair like me” and proceeds to take her hair clip out to show me her BSL hair. I tell her that’s very nice and that’s the length I’m shooting for. She says “come every week for deep conditionings and get a relaxer every 4 weeks and you can have hair like this”.:mad: :confused: :perplexed :ohwell: UHHHHUUUHH……whatever……..:lol:

I don’t think they realized how long my hair was. I had my hair in a phony pony, so my hair was bunned. Even after putting the deep conditioner in……I think when she began to roll my hair, that’s when they really noticed, because all of a sudden, they both got quiet, looking at my hair as she rolled.:lol:

I know this is what I get, I went there for the experience and to see them do a blow-out for myself, but it just shows what the Dominicans think about AA’s (whether a client or stylist). Some of us have good reason not to go AA stylist and I understand completely. But as a client, I know that there are a lot of AA stylists who know and care about hair health. As a stylist, I’m pissed off because AA’s are my people and to see how they talk and think about us 1st hand is unbelievable. I think they let loose because I was the only one left in there, I’m glad though.

In conclusion, I was very happy with my hair:D . They did a good job except for the water all over my face and that heat on my scalp (it wasn't that bad, but bad enough). They rollerset my hair and blew out my roots because I’ll be 11 weeks post tomorrow, then wrapped my hair. I was going crazy trying to find out what they put on my scalp before placing me under the dryer. It was a light brown liquid, with mo smell or texture. When I got home a did a crazy search on line trying to find this product, the one thing I found out is that she had to lightly shampoo it out. Long story short, I found out that it was the Aveda Sap Moss. This thing cured my shedding dramatically. I had one hair in the comb this morning compare to about 30 in the morning. I’m picking some of this stuff up.

Another note, the Dominican don’t do anything different than we do, it’s just the products they use, just in case someone wanted to know.

Sorry for the long thread, but I felt compelled to share.
 
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nychaelasymone

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sap moss pre-poo treatment or was it the shampoo
 

*Frisky*

Well-Known Member
Wow thanks for sharing your story....The relaxer every 4 weeks is not gonna fly with people that know anything about hair:lol:
 

bgsix

Well-Known Member
RelaxerRehab said:
What's the undercover part?
I think it was undercover because the OP is a licensed stylist herself and did not reveal that information to them.

Good info Luvlonghair, glad your experience was overrall a good one.
 

PaperClip

New Member
bgsix said:
I think it was undercover because the OP is a licensed stylist herself and did not reveal that information to them.

Good info Luvlonghair, glad your experience was overrall a good one.

Ooohhh.... ok.... I missed that part.... Thank you for letting me know that info.

Do Dominican salons/stylists come under the same criteria for operation as other salons? Meaning do they have to be licensed? Do they have state reporting requirements?
 

Kimberly

New Member
I have to say, I don't blame the Dominican stylist for trying to get you back in there every week. Almost every single AA stylist I have ever known had me convinced that I had to be in their chair every week or every two weeks if I wanted longer hair. Also, with the relaxers...AA stylists would swear up and down that I needed it every 6 weeks and sometimes they'd try to do them sooner and I'd have to point out that it hadn't even been 6 weeks yet. That's how they make their money. Only when we become knowledgeable about our own hair care can we stand our ground with any kind of hair stylist that tells us things about our hair that we know are not true. But other people not as knowledgeable and maybe even feeling desperate might fall into it. I've been there myself.

To me, it sounds like you had a pretty good experience. I'm glad your hair turned out well. I'm going for my first Dominican salon experience Saturday afternoon and I'm really looking forward to it.
 
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luvlonghair

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nychaelasymone said:
sap moss pre-poo treatment or was it the shampoo


Is was the pre-poo treatment. She applied it to my scalp and massaged it in, she then applied a conditioner to the length of my hair. Then placed me under the dryer for 15 minutes.
 

luvlonghair

Member
marie170 said:
Wow thanks for sharing your story....The relaxer every 4 weeks is not gonna fly with people that know anything about hair:lol:

I know, I thought that was really weird. I can understand if you have an inch of new growth in 4 weeks, but I was telling her my hair grew slow and I don't have that much hair at 4 weeks. She told me that I will coming to her.:confused:
 

luvlonghair

Member
bgsix said:
I think it was undercover because the OP is a licensed stylist herself and did not reveal that information to them.

Good info Luvlonghair, glad your experience was overrall a good one.

I'm glad too, but if it were to go down hill, I would of ran up out of there.:lol:
 

luvlonghair

Member
RelaxerRehab said:
Ooohhh.... ok.... I missed that part.... Thank you for letting me know that info.

Do Dominican salons/stylists come under the same criteria for operation as other salons? Meaning do they have to be licensed? Do they have state reporting requirements?

Yes, they do.
 

blac_quarian

Been here from long time
Great story! Thanks for posting. The thing that bothers me about your experience is that the stylist had the gall to actually say to you:

... the only way that my hair will grow long is if I get a relaxer every 4 weeks:mad: :confused:

“come every week for deep conditionings and get a relaxer every 4 weeks and you can have hair like this”.

This is the kind of crap a lot of AA women believe that we have to do to attain the sought after "long hair". And the sad part is, people buy this bull. It's as though others believe AA women will do any damn thing to get long hair - it's the same with all the hair growth potions/products in the stores. Anything that proclaims to "grow" our hair is supposed to miraculosly peak our interest, because it's widely believed our hair can't grow (even by some of us). However, I'm pretty sure this attitude is not only coming from stylists at Dominican Salons.

All I can say is thank God LHCF.
 

crlsweetie912

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luvlonghair said:
Is was the pre-poo treatment. She applied it to my scalp and massaged it in, she then applied a conditioner to the length of my hair. Then placed me under the dryer for 15 minutes.

Is it called Nourishing concentrate?

:sekret: (The PJ in me wants to know before I buy the wrong thing!)
 

luvlonghair

Member
Kimberly said:
I have to say, I don't blame the Dominican stylist for trying to get you back in there every week. Almost every single AA stylist I have never known had me convinced that I had to be in their chair every week or every two weeks if I wanted longer hair. Also, with the relaxers...AA stylists would swear up and down that I needed it every 6 weeks and sometimes they'd try to do them sooner and I'd have to point out that it hadn't even been 6 weeks yet. That's how they make their money. Only when we become knowledgeable about our own hair care can we stand our ground with any kind of hair stylist that tells us things about our hair that we know are not true. But other people not as knowledgeable and maybe even feeling desperate might fall into it. I've been there myself.

To me, it sounds like you had a pretty good experience. I'm glad your hair turned out well. I'm going for my first Dominican salon experience Saturday afternoon and I'm really looking forward to it.

That's why I said that I wasn't just referring to Dominican stylists only at the end of my post. I also referenced the knowledge AA's need about our own hair care. The point that pissed me off the most was how she was referring to AA hairstylist as a "whole" that we don't know anything about hair. Before I became a stylist or even joined this forum, I knew a lot AA stylist who knows and practices healthy hair.

I hope you have a great experience at the Salon this weekend:) . I'm not knocking all Dominican Stylists, just the ones I went to yesterday. Just like I can't knock all AA stylists.
 

CurliDiva

Well-Known Member
Kimberly said:
I have to say, I don't blame the Dominican stylist for trying to get you back in there every week. Almost every single AA stylist I have never known had me convinced that I had to be in their chair every week or every two weeks if I wanted longer hair. Also, with the relaxers...AA stylists would swear up and down that I needed it every 6 weeks and sometimes they'd try to do them sooner and I'd have to point out that it hadn't even been 6 weeks yet. That's how they make their money. Only when we become knowledgeable about our own hair care can we stand our ground with any kind of hair stylist that tells us things about our hair that we know are not true. But other people not as knowledgeable and maybe even feeling desperate might fall into it. I've been there myself.

To me, it sounds like you had a pretty good experience. I'm glad your hair turned out well. I'm going for my first Dominican salon experience Saturday afternoon and I'm really looking forward to it.

Wow, it saddens me that this POOR customer service is considered a "pretty good" salon experience! :eek:

I'm not trying to put anyone on balst, but comparing bad service from a AA stylist with the bad service of DOM stylist is still BAD service.:confused:

I think we deserve better!:(
 

luvlonghair

Member
blac_quarian said:
Great story! Thanks for posting. The thing that bothers me about your experience is that the stylist had the gall to actually say to you:

... the only way that my hair will grow long is if I get a relaxer every 4 weeks:mad: :confused:

“come every week for deep conditionings and get a relaxer every 4 weeks and you can have hair like this”.

This is the kind of crap a lot of AA women believe that we have to do to attain the sought after "long hair". And the sad part is, people buy this bull. It's as though others believe AA women will do any damn thing to get long hair - it's the same with all the hair growth potions/products in the stores. Anything that proclaims to "grow" our hair is supposed to miraculosly peak our interest, because it's widely believed our hair can't grow (even by some of us). However, I'm pretty sure this attitude is not only coming from stylists at Dominican Salons.

All I can say is thank God LHCF.

I agree, you must be my other twin in life (I'm really a twin). I was just saying the same thing to a friend a while ago. It's a shame, some of us will fall for any game for "hair". I thank Him everyday for this forum.:)
 

luvlonghair

Member
crlsweetie912 said:
Is it called Nourishing concentrate?

:sekret:The PJ in me wants to know before I buy the wrong thing!)

Yup, that's it. She lightly shampood it out when I came from under the dryer.
 

luvlonghair

Member
Nice & Wavy said:
So, let me ask a question. Do you impliment any of the things shared on LHCF with any of your clients? Have any of them become members?

If I understand your question correctly. I've spoke about about LHCF to any of my clients. I do implement and inform my clients on things that I've learned here, just in case they couldn't make an appt. (low funds). I always educate my clients.
 

CoCoGirl821

New Member
I want to try a dominican salon one day, but I should probably wait til my hair is longer and healthier. The usage of heat kinda scares me right now. PLUS there arent ANY dominican salons in Nashville.:mad: But I'm glad that your hair came out nice. TOO bad that lady tried to play you ALL the ay to the left!!!:confused:
 
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