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hairlove said:
I still don't think I've found it yet!
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I used to have that problem.
You may want to experiment with taking a conditioner that you already like and add a few things to it until you get the results that you want.
This is how I deep condition:
I take a regular conditioner (example: Nexxus Humectress, suave awupui, or Daily Defense tender apple) and I mix it with the following ingredients: Veggie Glycerin, honey, Olive Oil, Caster Oil, or Sweet Almond oil.
I don't measure. I eyeball the amounts. I also do not use the hood dryer. Heat can kill the beneficial properties of the cold pressed oils.