I look for and re-read this thread every so often and I didn't want to be the one to bump it, but since someone else has, I'm taking the opportunity to speak honestly.
I'm an active member at both sites. I bounce back and forth because I've found really useful information there and here. I've found decent people in both places.
With that being said, this thread here is one that has stuck out to me since my lurking days and has really shaped how I post here. I watch every single thing I say because of threads like this. Some people here have said some foul, offensive and disgusting things. I search at the other site for something this kind of attitude and I haven't found anything remotely similar to this or to some comments I've seen in other threads.
Every so often I run into threads where someone will ask "I wonder if white people lurk here, why don't they post?" And all I can think is "Do you
really have to ask why?"
So yeah, whenever I see anyone posting about how white people are so obsessed with black hair, I am rolling my eyes. Because they aren't talking about it there. But plenty of people here are fascinated about what white hair does.