my hair needs are similar to yours:
*whereas nexxus would be good for my hair during the first 6 weeks of my relaxer because it's already fine but a fresh relaxer makes it finer and nexxus gives it substance. i love nexxus but to get slip i had to use headress on EVERY roller set. being that i deep condition EVERY time i wash
i felt that i was overconditioning my hair even though i did'nt get any adverse reactions (yet). i was bent on following shamboosie's plan (but he does say any product line would work)
*6 weeks and older then my hair needs more moisture and more slip. keracare, design essentials, & elasta gives me this.