HairPhoenix
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My neighbor's daughter is a few years older than my daughter and they love to play together. Of course being little girls they love to play dress up. A part of this is that the older girl likes to do my daughter's hair. Now it took me a long time to figure out what works for my daughter's hair and I try my best to keep her hair in protective styles. My problem is that the older girl rocks the boat and it makes me angry. She likes to take my daughter's hair a loose and put hair products, like pomades and gels, in her hair (only in small amounts). And there's the brushing and combing and hair accessories.
When my daughter gets home and I see that her hair has been tampered with, there is a part of me that gets very angry. There is also a part of me that feels like I am over-reacting. I mean, they are just children for goodness sake. The girl isn't a bad kid at all. She is actually quite sweet. I want to say something to the girl and her mother, but I don't want to come off as the mean old witch of the neighborhood.
Has anyone else been through this? Am I wrong for getting upset? How should I handle this?
When my daughter gets home and I see that her hair has been tampered with, there is a part of me that gets very angry. There is also a part of me that feels like I am over-reacting. I mean, they are just children for goodness sake. The girl isn't a bad kid at all. She is actually quite sweet. I want to say something to the girl and her mother, but I don't want to come off as the mean old witch of the neighborhood.
Has anyone else been through this? Am I wrong for getting upset? How should I handle this?