BroadstreetBully
New Member
I was thinking about why we choose our goal length. Why do some ladies want BSL hair while others like Midback? Some choose Shoulder or APL because longer lengths might be harder to maintain, while quite a few swoon over the idea of hair down to their waist. So what is your goal length and why? I also think goals might have to do with how one feels about the length they had throughout most of their lives. For instance, there are many ladies here who have always had hair that was APL or BSL, therefore Midback or Waistlength might not seem like a far off goal. Also, the ladies here who have always had long hair might have more experience with the extreme maintenance longer lengths require. Right now I am so confused as to what my goal length will be. A part of me feels like I might never reach that goal while another part of me fears that longer hair might also bring negative attention. When my hair is healthy, I like to wear it down. However, I fear that once I reach a certain length I will have to deal with rude comments and nasty stares. I think my goal is between midback and waist. However, BSL might be more realistic. I want this length because I have always favored hairstyles that require longer length. I have a round face and therefore hair that is past APL seems like it would frame my face better. Perhaps seeing the goals other women have and their determination can get me over my fear of failure. I am especially interested in the ladies who have never had long hair yet want to achieve lengths past APL or even past BSL. So what is your goal length and why?