BeautifulFlower
Well-Known Member
I have recently read Choosing God's Best by Dr. Don Raunikar. It's about the principles of godly courtship, the destruction that dating has caused on society, marrieges, families and God's people, and how to go about preparing your life for courtship and God's choice of a mate for you. After ending my last relationship of 4+ years and facing how much I have ignored (blatantly ignored) God's warnings, I have decided to dump dating.
Please dont think of courting and dating as basically the same because they are totally different. What most people are taught about courting is wrong. Courting is God's way of protecting us from counterfeit oneness with men who are not his choice for you. Courting puts God fully in the center at the beginning of the relationship and not throw in after you decided that you want God to bless something He never ordained in the first place.
This book was recommended to me by a women in my church. She has blessed me tremedously. She got me the job I currently have and she introduced this principle to me. She and her husband went through a godly courtship and are now married and very happy. They did not even kiss until their wedding day.
I recommend this book to ALL Christian Single Women on LHCF. It will bless you and protect you while you wait for the man God has choosen for you. Remember, God is the Perfect Matchmaker. He will teach you about principles such as putting God first, being in ministry, remaining physically, emotionally, and spiritually pure, acccountability through family and others, the different stages from friendship to marriage, and sooo much more.
Anyway else read this book? What are your thoughts.
Please dont think of courting and dating as basically the same because they are totally different. What most people are taught about courting is wrong. Courting is God's way of protecting us from counterfeit oneness with men who are not his choice for you. Courting puts God fully in the center at the beginning of the relationship and not throw in after you decided that you want God to bless something He never ordained in the first place.
This book was recommended to me by a women in my church. She has blessed me tremedously. She got me the job I currently have and she introduced this principle to me. She and her husband went through a godly courtship and are now married and very happy. They did not even kiss until their wedding day.
I recommend this book to ALL Christian Single Women on LHCF. It will bless you and protect you while you wait for the man God has choosen for you. Remember, God is the Perfect Matchmaker. He will teach you about principles such as putting God first, being in ministry, remaining physically, emotionally, and spiritually pure, acccountability through family and others, the different stages from friendship to marriage, and sooo much more.
Anyway else read this book? What are your thoughts.
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