What products are you using that don't contain protein? tia
It is the only thing that I can think of. I don't have anything else in my regimen I can exclude.
I DC every week.
I moisturize and seal.
I don't do heat.
My hair is in protective styles 95% of the time.
I wear a satin bonnet every night.
I don't use any cones.
I use mostly natural products.
I think I started my healthy hair journey off wrong trying to balance moisture protein, doing moisture one week and protein the next. I don't think my hair has every recovered.
My hair is never that mushy feeling people have described. So the only thing I can think of is letting go of all protein. Let's see if my hair ever feels mushy. I don't think I can save the hair that is already damaged though.
faithVA said:Thanks ladies for all of the suggestions. So there doesn't seem to be anything perfect solutions, so will have to try to pick what I think is the least worse solution
I have tried most of the products mentioned. And I don't think its realistic at this time to find a product without all of the stuff my hair dislikes. I am going to stick with cowashing and use the products that I have on hand and just keep an eye on it. I will play around with oils/butters to seal my ends because otherwise they will be worse than they are now.
So I will see how it goes.
[USER=304544 said:MsEveMarie[/USER];16219085]Agreed. That's what I had to end up doing. I was tempted to make my own but ur was just too much work lol. Just make sure if your leave in product has aloe, its further down on the list...aloe is evil lol. And of course all cones which I believe would include the tresseme that ur using
I am the setback queen. I always recover but I always manager to set myself back again. My last setback was in January. Then before that early summer of 2011. My goal this year is to go one year with no setback. January 2013, here I come.
Keen
Girl....This sounds like me. .....
*glad i'm not the only one*
This thread has been eye-opening.
carolb21 Yeah, you got me beat. Only two of by setbacks were back to shoulder length the others were back to APL. It sound like you need to moisturizer daily when you are relaxed. You seem to be able to maintain your natural hair but not your relaxed hair. I found out that I have to give up style for daily moisture with my relaxed hair.No, both of you are wrong, I am the Ultimate Setback Queen........
I would weave my hair up and it would grow, thicken up and be healthy. Of course I would relax in an effort to get swanging hair, trying every product anybody would recommend. What followed was breakage, breakage, breakage.......
I would back up, protecting it from me.
I was blessed in October, 2008 to get an appointment with Reniece and grew my hair to the length in my Avatar in 2 plus years, it was gorgeous. My sister's eight year battle with cancer ended in May 2011 and I was devastated. She always encouraged me to stay natural and just get blowouts or flat iron my hair. I am very active, doing Bikram Yoga 4-5 times a week and the heat plus natural hair was too much for me to handle, I grew tired trying to maintain any semblance of a style. But instead of weaving it up, which is the easiest way to take care of my hair, I jumped on the Zerran bandwagon and suffered a major setback from heat damage. Reniece weaved my hair back up in August of last year......
Fast forward to April and that yearning desire for swanging hair, so I let my girlfriend convince me to relax with the guy she uses......I could hear my sister saying "Oh no, don't do it!", while I was sitting in the chair but it was too late. I had a consultation, had really conditioned my hair for a week before going and it still broke like crazy...... He relaxed me bone straight when I asked to be more texlaxed, I cried in his chair and he sad I was being dramatic. Oh it was beautiful for about two weeks and then it fell off my head so fast I had a trash can full of hair. It broke off so bad in the back and seemed to be overprocessed because it was soooo straight. I conditioned, stayed away from heat and wore wigs in an attempt to salvage my hair. Had I listened to my sister I would be almost 4 years natural and probably BSL, instead of NL & EL......
I am now weaved back up and starting over again for the hundredth time......
Well it seems that way. I will never relax my hair again as long as I live. I love my weaves and the low maintenance and of course Reniece always has my hair looking great. She is a blessing and really knows how to grow hair. I will keep my hair moisturized and condition under my weave and look forward to the next two years.....so do I win or what.............
But the support from everyone on the board is great. I don't post much, but I love to lurk. I keep saying it's just hair and it will grow back...........
LexiDior said:Im still shedding i DC so now i will try jojoba oil. i hope all goes well because if that doesnt, imma need suggestions ladies!!
LexiDior said:DarkJoy mine is when i brush or comb my hair, i see little stubs on my shirt. this is recent, about two days now. i havent changed anything or gotten any new products since then. My shampoo has sulfur in it but ive used it for years now without a problem. I also take biotin and missed 1 day but that shouldnt be enough to cause shedding. I wonder if the antibiotics im on for an ear infection could be the problem.
UHHHHHHHH MY HAIR IS AT IT AGAIN!!!! Its breaking off and i dont havent figured out why. man this is breaking my spirits.
ok what products are you using and what is your reggie?
MystiqueBabe said:I recently had a setback. My hair was full of splits and was just crispy looking. No matter what I did it was still breaking. I wanted to hold onto my "length" my hair was grazing APL. I just decided to cut it to NL and get rid of most of the splits. Sure, I have nearly no hair now buts it thicker and healthier looking. Right now I am constantly wet bunning to retain length and so far it is working for me.
@MystiqueBabe,
I don't have splits, I have very thin ends from previous over processing with relaxers. Like you, I'm almost APL and will have to cut a few inches in order to have healthier, longer hair. I hate to cut my length but it has to be done. Congrats on having the nerve to cut it back to NL.
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