I attended a worshop on spiritual gifts 2 weeks ago and took a quiz to discover my gifts. My prayer is for the Holy Spirit to teach and guide me in using my gifts to do His will. I wonder if I've been influenced by the training in my secular career.
I don't know. I've been looking forward to this all weekend!
Its becoming popular to be Christians w/o a church, but I feel like if your not IN the body, you are NOT fully in CHRIST. How do you ladies feel about that?
Christians need to fellowship with other Christians. I didn't attend church for about a year but my parents and several coworkers encouraged me to find a church home. I read the bible on my own, but it's not the same.
I use to be like that. I was really lazy (just being honest) to get up and go to church and if I did I was go ONLY on Sunday and I never attended church events. Fast forward JUST 3 Months. I have only missed ONE Sunday. I attend Sunday School and Bible Study (my schedule is open. I am single with no children.) I love my church and I am so happy that I found a home. I dont/didnt have the foundation to develop a relationship with Christ without a church. I didnt even own a bible But the more I learn I find myself wanting and yearning for more.
I am confident that one day if I choose to do work over seas my foundation in Christ is strong enough for me to not HAVE to go to church and maybe minister to others.
ZebraPrintLover said:Its becoming popular to be Christians w/o a church, but I feel like if your not IN the body, you are NOT fully in CHRIST. How do you ladies feel about that?
smwrigh3 said:I use to be like that. I was really lazy (just being honest) to get up and go to church and if I did I was go ONLY on Sunday and I never attended church events. Fast forward JUST 3 Months. I have only missed ONE Sunday. I attend Sunday School and Bible Study (my schedule is open. I am single with no children.) I love my church and I am so happy that I found a home. I dont/didnt have the foundation to develop a relationship with Christ without a church. I didnt even own a bible But the more I learn I find myself wanting and yearning for more.
I am confident that one day if I choose to do work over seas my foundation in Christ is strong enough for me to not HAVE to go to church and maybe minister to others.
I wonder how many of the Christians who prefer not to attend church made that choice because of spiritual abuse.
I wonder how many of the Christians who prefer not to attend church made that choice because of spiritual abuse.
I don't agree.
I do agree that you need fellowship and to be doing your part in the body, but it just depends on what you're called to.
I don't think you should be complacent, never intending to do your part, but you can be fully in Christ in the in-between and sometimes your part is not in a building. No where does it specify a church building. There are a lot of people in A church, but not in THE church. THE church being the "one Spirit" Paul talks about here.
There are Christians living so fully alive in Christ on the mission fields of far off places where there are hardly any other Christians, except maybe their mission partners; they can't make it to a church building, but yes they are most certainly a part of the body.
I don't think Paul is talking about a church building, ever, actually.
He does say not to neglect to meet together (in Hebrews), but Paul wasn't with them when he wrote that (obviously). There are times when we are called to be someplace where that isn't possible. That doesn't mean we're not fully in Christ.
Yeah where there are a group of real Christ-filled Christians they should not neglect to meet together, to build each other up FOR the work Christ has for us (not just to play games *ahem*), and I think it's our responsibility to seek out that group.
I have to say that I think God is pouring out His Spirit in ways beyond our understanding that transcend church buildings, that will reach the truly lost of the far corners of the earth, whom may never step foot in a church.
I think submitting to His Spirit and the call He has on our lives, which will serve the body in whatever unique way He's designed us for, is what this is really about. The MSG translation says: "You can easily enough see how this kind of thing works by looking no further than your own body. Your body has many parts-limbs, organs, cells-but no matter how many parts you can name, you're still one body. It's exactly the same with Christ.".
There are SO many different body parts, some that we can't even name because we can't see them! But it's still a part of Christ's body. I've seen people working for Christ in ways that a lot of people in traditional churches wouldn't understand or see, but yet they are so essential to Christ's work.
We have to reach outside of ourselves and stop worrying about if our part seems big enough, or if it fits in a certain box, or if people will recognize it.
If you're an organ they might not, because we don't see organs, yet without them we're dead.
The Pharisees didn't recognize Christ because he didn't fit in at church, but umm, He IS the body. Which is why His Word describes them as blind. They couldn't even see the body they were working so self-righteously to fit into, so much so that they completely missed it.
This doesn't negate the church buildings at all, I just think we have to not be boxed into a PLACE so much that we forget the Spirit. Because if you are filled with the Spirit you may need to step away from the church for a while to follow Him. We can't all be an eye; we can't all be ushers safe inside the church building, some of us are called away from the building, but not away from the body. It's the Spirit that makes us all apart of the one body - the real church.
This is what I mean. We do need to meet with other Christians to build each other up so that we can do the work we're called for.
*Just I case my other post sounded like I was negating church, cause I wasn't. I was just saying that Paul was talking about being called to different things and it's not always going to allow us to be in a building. So when we can, we need to take advantage of meeting with real Christians and not wasting time.
It's funny this is the bible study scripture base. I read this Friday. I often times wanted to have a real amazing gift that could make me profitable in so many ways. It wasn't until recent that I am allowing myself to accept the gifts I was granted. We all should take inventory of our gifts as I do believe they change as we grow.
This scripture in my vantage points really pushes the mantra that we are a unified front. However in this day and age that has been lost. We won't help one another unless we are getting paid for it. Also at times our gifts don't have as much esteem as others however we must take heart that if God gave it to us then it's a worthy gift if we use it right and have the right mental path for it.
I don't necessarily agree that one must be in a brick and mortar building to fellowship. I do that often here just fine. I have been more challenged here than in any church. There is only one church I would like to attend but they are in MD and I'm in the jacked up state of Tx...one day until then online will be my way of learning,growing and flowing..
@ZebraPrintLover I will say from my own definition of spiritual abuse some will be so negative in the church. They are mean spirited and belittling. Some will try and use the word against you. I say so much turbulence in the church that it's abuse. The gossiping,the fables,the snobbery,the elitist,the class-ism,the sexism in the church all in my def fall under abuse and another key is judgmental blaspheme. I haven't been in church in over 6 months. I may not return until I get to the church in MD or somthing like it. I don't want to be preached at I want to be taught and encouraged and groomed..
HWAY said:It's really important to pray and search for a pastor whose teachings are bible based.
THis is what lead me back to the church I grew up in. My pastor is teaching us how to live in the world according to the BIble.
ZebraPrintLover said:Whatdo you mean?
When I said the first bolded I wasnt referring to the content of tonight I was just think in general. Okay but what aboutt having a foundation? We work stronger as a team and so if you have no home how do you work? I am thinking more onn terms of ppl not attending church at all butt call themselves Christians
I am not disagreeing I am seeing how ppl look at the subject
Foundation comes from the Bible, and I think you can find great fellowship even if it's not exactly a church building. Like Biblical small groups.
I do think there are def. real Christians who don't go to a building. Strong Christians? Maybe not because it's hard to be strengthened without good fellowship which is more likely to be found in a good church, but that doesn't mean they're not Christians. But people who say they are Christians who don't read the Bible is a whole different story.
I also think what you said ties into tonight's study since I used mission workers as an example of real Christians who may not go to church. And that ties into what Paul is saying about all of us having different parts of the body, which is Spirit. Im emphasizing Spirit, because some people can be too caught up in a church building, which I think is opposite of what Paul is encouraging.
Your second bold is what I was referring to LOL, those ppl . Like having someone say that they are a Christ but doesnt know jack about the Bible, I am saying that to say this.....I have been there and didnt realize how bad off I was without a home (foundation- church, to each its own). Its so many ppl that I know walking around saying they are Christians but dont live as them and doing unChrist like things.
(not living by the Word), you are NOT fully in CHRIST.
LOL, watch out now.
I am born and raised in Texas so I can say I don't like this place with honesty.
This is what I look for....